Tired of the Same Arguments?
Romantic. Family. Leadership.
30min Online Sessions: R649 or $49
You’re Smart. Driven.
But under pressure, you:
Say things you regret
Shut down or escalate
Repeat the same arguments
Avoid difficult conversations
Feel misunderstood
Feel disrespected
Feel not good enough
Afterwards, you replay it in your head.
“I should have handled that better.”
Externally, it looks like conflict.
Internally, it feels draining. Frustrating. Heavy.
This isn’t a personality flaw. It’s a reaction pattern.
And patterns don’t change just because you want them to.
Meet Relic.
I understand how exhausting this can be.
Most people don’t intend to react this way.
It happens fast.
And once it happens, it’s hard to undo.
I help individuals, couples, and leaders slow down the pattern and correct what is happening internally before the reaction takes over.
My work is grounded in structured critical thinking and cognitive behavioural methods.
I lecture internationally in Critical Thinking, Cognitive Behaviour Theory, and Rational Emotive Behaviour Theory.
I am supervised and mentored by Steven A. Johnson, PhD, former president of the Albert Ellis Institute.
You are not getting generic advice.
You are getting structured, evidence-based correction applied to real relationship problems.
3 Steps to Stronger Relationships.
1. Book a 30min Online Session.
Bring one specific situation that keeps repeating.
2. Break Down the Pattern.
We examine what happened internally before the reaction.
3. Build a Stronger Response.
You leave with a clearer, calmer strategy to apply next time.
Some patterns shift quickly. Others require practice.
But clarity is where change begins.
A Simple, Focused Process.
30min Online Session:
R649 or $49
60min Online Session:
R1299 or $99
One issue at a time.
No long-term contracts.
No pressure to commit.
You decide if you want to continue.
Just focused, structured progress.
Imagine Walking Away From Conflict Feeling Calm.
Not replaying it.
Not regretting it.
Not feeling small or explosive.
Imagine:
Clearer conversations
Stronger boundaries
Better leadership presence
More self-trust
When your response strengthens, relationships improve.
Real Results. Real Clients.
Pulled from verified Google reviews.
Leader.
“I’ve tried CBT before, but working with Relic is completely different. Faster, deeper, and focused on solving the real problem. His approach builds lasting confidence.”
D. Olivier
Struggling Dad.
“Relic helped me work through trauma, relationships, and self-confidence with clarity and practical tools that actually work.”
W. Bradley
Relationships.
“I’d been to a psychologist, a counsellor, and even tried kinesiology. Unlike these experiences where I was just being heard, Relic was interactive, insightful, and got to the root in one session.”
A. Van Wyk
What Happens If Nothing Changes.
The arguments repeat.
Resentment builds quietly.
Confidence shatters.
Distance grows.
Leadership credibility weakens.
Patterns become habits.
Until they are interrupted.